‘When you begin to understand Law of Attraction, and you understand that which is like unto itself is drawn, then it is easier and easier to understand that you are offering a signal, and the entire Universe responds. And when you finally get that, and you begin to exercise some deliberate control about the signal that you offer, then it really begins to be fun, because then you recognize that nothing happens outside of your creative control. There are no things that happen by chance or by circumstance. There is nothing that is happening because of something you vibrated a long time ago or in a past life. It is not about what you were born into. It is only about what you are, right now, in this red hot fresh moment emitting.’

Abraham with Esther and Jerry Hicks,  Excerpted from the workshop in Seattle, WA on June, 20 1998

I love this quote from Abraham 🙂 I have many clients who are experiencing difficulties in bringing their true love/life partner into their lives. I can truly empathise with the frustration and disappointment they experience when yet another ‘partner’ turns out to be ‘not THE one’. Who is almost a carbon copy of past ‘loves’

It is my experience that we can hold the Intention and desire to attract him/her into our life, however, unless we are willing to look at the vibration we are emitting, we will continue to attract people into our lives who resonate with our current vibration.

I will explain further. We may be holding emotions, negative beliefs, traumas, programming and negative or distorted expectations. These cause us to attract  individuals with the same vibration. For example, the energy of Abandonment. Many individuals may have experienced Abandonment in their life, through personal experience or, unbeknown to themselves, inherited the energy/vibration from their parents/ ancestors. This vibration causes the individual to either abandon or to be abandoned. It may also lead to self-sabotage, hence it feels like a self fulfilling prophecy, ‘ I am always abandoned..no one loves me…I am unloveable…I am unworthy of another’s love’. The beliefs associated with this type of vibration are numerous!

In order to identify and clear the discordant energies responsible for our being abandoned and through our willingness to look at our energy we can ask, ‘What vibration am I emitting?’ ‘What is at the root of this vibration?’  As a consequence, through clearing the energies our vibration is changed and we have a better understanding, even an ‘Ah-Ha’ enlightening moment for our repetitive experiences.

I liken our energy to a radio frequency. We can retune, recallibrate our vibration, our personal signal, to a healthier, balanced lighter signal, attracting individuals who are vibrating on this ‘new’ healthier frequency who will value, respect and love us for who we are. The ‘other’ individuals are still available on a different ‘station,’ however we are now tuned to a healthier frequency of like minded vibrating souls.

Through my work with the Emotion Code and the wonderful assistance from our Guides/Angels/Higher self, I can speak from personal experience of identifying and clearing emotions and energies that were preventing me from attracting a wonderful partner into my life. I have attracted into my life a partner who is entirely different to previous boyfriends. He is resonating with the same beliefs and core values that I now hold about myself, relationships and life. We aren’t identical, we have different paths and understandings and he has a ‘normal’ job 🙂 However he entirely ‘gets me’, values me and respects me as an individual as I do him. Most importantly, I love, value and respect me.

It was worth clearing my Heart Wall, Pain Body and numerous negative beliefs to ultimately change my vibration to actualise him into my life. It wasn’t instantaneous, there were a couple of ‘near misses’, where I could have ‘settled’. However, I held true to my faith, intending that he is already with me… with the extra essential ingredients of Gratitude and absolute knowingness. I directed and sent my Intention out into the Universe and just over 12 months he appeared as if by ‘magic’ 😉 

‘Oh no not a whole year!?’ I hear you cry. I admit there were times when my faith wavered and I would lie in bed talking to my Angels asking, ‘Just when would he appear?’. However, I realised that Divine Timing plays a huge part in intention setting. He wasn’t ready to appear until the time was right. He was still involved in a relationship that was coming to an end at it’s own pace. Perhaps those involved needed to learn and grow from that relationship, that isn’t for me to say or comment on. I just know that we were led to meet and we had the choice, through free will, to begin this journey together. Who knows where that will lead, only we can decide.

If on reading this you feel that you can see similarities within your own life and you have a longing to meet your ‘beloved’. Perhaps changing your vibration will allow you to bring that happiness into your life? The Law of Attraction and Power of Intention is our given right, we are all capable of working with it :-)Willingness and loving yourself is the place to begin